Life of a Mother and a Daughter at the same time (Opening Up)

It's been 3 years since my mom suffered from stroke  and had re stroke June of 2019, i am still having anxieties and worries about how to handle things when its comes to my mom and my son (mother and daughter duties)... Well, good thing i have the greatest husband in the world... Blessed to have a very supportive and understanding man in my life...

Today, i just feel like i want to release my anxieties, doubts and worries in everything... I know that it's pretty normal to just overthink at times but i feel so anxious the past days and it bothers me a lot... I want to be a good mom, but at the same time i want to be a good daughter to my parents... I want to repay their sacrifices and  I love them... But what if  due to these duties and responsibilities time will come that i need to choose between my family (my son and husband) and my parents??? Well, I don't want to choose... I'm scared it might happen... I just want to do the best I can to serve both parties at the moment, but i get tired... I am tired and more often i feel like i am not doing well in my duties as mom, and as wife anymore because i am too busy making sure that my parents are okay and my siblings are fine too, most of the decisions are always mine to make and it's hard and my time is consumed of taking care of my mom... but I'm not complaining, I just need to unload these unhealthy emotions... What should I do..? should i just let this loose and be just who i want to be or just act like i don't care anymore because i am exhausted???  These things I am doing, to be a good mom and a daughter is so exhausting... life is so unfair and that's true, because i see people just having fun and not worrying of anything because they don't face the same challenges as I do... but i know that's life should be... Why do I feel this anyway??? and why do i have to feel this way when I know that time can heal and that everything happens for a reason...

I keep thinking Positively while Embracing all the negatives that had happened and happening to me... I wont stop praying... I will never give up my faith, God will not give me something I cant handle...

Well, enough with these dramas... I feel better now... so much better that i have vented out... I will always remember that no matter how hard problems would be, I will do my very best to solve them... If ever I fail, There 'll be no regrets, for i have done everything i can in my power...

Lastly, I realized that there are people who can be a distractions rather than an inspirations... just be careful... for we can be deceived by what they show or do which and we think are essential to us but in reality, useless... Trust God for He will be our guide in everything and in every way... as the song goes, read your bible and pray everyday...

It's been a while

Last post i had was december 2016 today is october 20, 2019 and in awe how fast time passes by... its been almost 3 years... i am back with more experiences, more to share and more tips as well... i may not be able to update often but i will check this blog and post from time to time... in almost 3 years, so much had happen, i needed to focus on my mom who suffered from stroke and also spending time with my son who is now a preschooler (Kinder 1)... yes, that's how long i was not able to update my page, and i missed doing this, through writing, i can find my lost soul, that i just realized today 🤣 and im feeling better too... i am excited to do more in the next days, and hope to make some content that any woman can relate through my experiences...❤💕😘

A week full Fun!!!👩👶👨😍😘

We love to be together... so anywhere daddy goes, we go...hehe 😄

ILOveILOve... SM city again, a lil shopping and a visit to my former workplace...😉😊

At home, we had chicken that lay eggs everyday... and my LO enjoy picking 'em from time to time... he's sick 😷(slight fever and colds) but this activity made him feel better...👌👍😂

Road trip early in the morning...☁⛅🌊 we were not feelin' good (sick 😷)... we woke up too early and got nothing to do, so we decided to hit the road...😄😜

TADA!!! Lights... and more lights...✨🌟💫

That's all for now...😉😍😘👋

Last week of November to First week of December

It was a busy week... not able to at least post any updates on my blog for the whole week or more... here are just some random photos and videos we had for a week...😎😉


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Here's our late afternoon walk at my Papa's workplace (near our house)... Yes, if you have seen my LO's pre-birthday photos, this is the place where we shot some of them... might as well blog those photos soon...💗

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It's really hard to travel with a toddler who thinks that the car is a playhouse...lol... in short super makulit so mommies, when travelling, make sure that your LO is sleepy (or maybe on his nap time) in that way he would probably fall asleep along the way...😎😉

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Obviously, Iloilo is a Home For my Family... Aside from the Fact that It's My LO's Birth Place, this is where we have Established Almost Everything We have now.

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Our Sunday Well Spent... home-Church-home...🏡⛪🏡

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Bed Time Kulitan with our guest... hehe... my nephew xai... the fun can be physical sometimes and i am the victim most of the instances...😂😅😆

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The Hanging Bridge Experience (ThePineAppleFamily)

Last Saturday, when my husband had a client meeting in a resort located in Janiuay Iloilo, we also had a chance to explore the place... aside from the fact that we can get together as a family, i cant let the opportunity swept away to experience the hanging bridge... as a Mother, I always wanted to do something very memorable and this time a little bit unusual with my family...(Mom👩Dad👨Baby👶)

We did not realize that it's gonna be that far and very tiring just to get to the entrance, specially that i was carrying a toddler. whew! Sweat all over...😅
On this photo we are almost there... few meters away and we will get there...
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Yay!!! We are here! Seeing the entrance made us scream like waaaaahhhhhh!!!
at long last... hahaha 😂😝

Caption: Mommy i know your nervous but i am holding tight and i know your not gonna let go of me, no matter what happens, (Kapit lang) hehe...😌

Definitely a Nerve-racking Experience but was exciting and all we wanted is just to cross the bridge... will we survive..? of course... no looking back...
Ooops, Family picture first 👇... lol...😆

And since my arms were getting numb, i had to put my Hijo down for a moment to recharge my energy...💪😝 (he actually liked it, he's not afraid but i was, that he might run away...😁)

We're almost there... and i needed to carry this little guy again since it's scarier to just let him walk
beside me... oh my brave little man... (he got his immunization shots that morning, but he's just doing great, the pain on both arms does not seem to bother him.)

And Finally... here's the video to prove that we reached the finish line... hehehe... (Victory!!!) We're just proud we did it!!! 👏👍😎

Remember, life is like crossing a hanging bridge... it's hard and we fear if we can make it or not, but we will never know unless we try or do it...😉

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Cutest nasty thing I've Ever seen!

Okay! before you react, let me tell you that nails are cut and clean and I am making sure of that all the time...😂😉

This boy is really learning a lot and somehow getting more independent each day... 

Yesterday we went to a store to buy some of his stuffs and of course our basic needs... We were in the counter (Daddy, Mommy and LO) to pay for our groceries and he was just standing few inches away from me... as I was keeping an eye to this naughty child of mine, he stared at me and said : Ma!(while pointing his finger to his nose). I answered, yes baby it's your nose... little did i know, he started picking his nose, and my immediate reactions was to giggle and take pictures...hahaha...(Sorry I just can't let this pass) I knew something was there!lol(you know what i mean). I told him to stop doing it but he never really gave up till he took that tiny thing out.(Success!) and that smile appeared...

I researched about nose picking for toddlers/children and there are several behaviors we should be aware about. Observe your child, if its habitual, then we should take actions to get rid of that unhealthy habit right away...

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